Friday, April 15, 2011

Search For Beauty



God is Good. And He does not change. So the God we meet in Genesis is the same God we greet in Revelations.

This same God created heaven and earth. I believe that it is important to search out God's beauty in nature and in our surroundings.


April in DC presents a marvelous opportunity to find beauty all around. The cherry blossoms were resplendent this year. And the azaleas are poised to bloom all over the DMV soon.


Take a moment to study the delicate beauty of these flowers up close. Impress the image of their tiny petals into your hearts. it is this fragile beauty; basically God's perfection and peace that will enable you to face inevitable dissappointments, harsh words and misunderstandings with a wink in a smile.


The secret is that God is in the tiny details of each April azaelea blossom. He provides for them and will provide for you.


DON'T Worry, darlngs. Rejoice, with the butteflies, It is Spring 2011!

AND GOD IS GOOD!


Matthew 6:28-34


28“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. 29Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. 30If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. 33But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. 34Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Tuesday, March 8, 2011

JUST WAIT ON HIM, Darlings!




28
“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. 29“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS.


Many times, it is advantageous to just sit in the presence of the Almighty without a request, without a complaint.


Did you know that you can be revived, refreshed, renewed just by coming in contact with God?


How? Supernaturally, of course.


We are told: 28“Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. 29“Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and YOU WILL FIND REST FOR YOUR SOULS. Matthew 11: 28-29


All we have to do is approach. Be quiet. Be Calm. And Know that HE IS GOD.


Wait right there, close to HIM, for as long as it takes for your countenance to change and your spirt to lift. Remember it is direct contact with the HOLY ONE (through prayer, through bible study, through praise, through thoughts of HIM) that cures everything that ails.


There is nothing that is too hard for GOD. He promised to work it all out, darling. All we have to do is wait with HIM.

Sunday, February 6, 2011

DREAMING OF MY FRIEND




When I was a child I could not wait to go to sleep. As soon as the lights went out I would begin weaving intricate tales of all kinds. Typically, the dream would start with me taking a long trip. Sometimes, I'd travel via the Orient Express through remote parts of India or I would ride a split level barge down the Nile River in Egypt. Very often, I would live in a giant rambling bungalow nestled at the top of a few towering trees. In order to visit neighbors I'd have to navigate a series of wooden ladders anchored by leather tassels. Or, I lived in an igloo with opulent fur rugs and secret underground passages carved out of ice. Regardless of where I lived, I was always the oldest daughter of the king and queen. I was the rebellious, beautiful, intelligent Princess with a killer wardrobe and hair like Pam Greer.

I am much older but my dreams still represent a form of escape from the humdrum monotony of life. Through the past 30 years or so, I have learned the hard way that constantly seeking this world's thrills when confronted with tragedy, disappointment or sadness is NEVER the way. It inevitably leads to errors and mistakes.

God through his son Jesus has shown us that the only thing we should seek with regularity is HIS WAY. This is not easy.

Who would choose to die on a cross if she could help it? (Jesus chose to die even though he had the power to avoid this horrible death)

Who would choose to watch his friends grieve for another when you knew you had power to revive the deceased? (Jesus did not come to Lazarous' aid even though he knew Lazarous was sick sick unto death. But when he arrived, he wept with his friends and raised Lazarous from the dead.) See John chapter 11 (below)

The point is that if God has commanded us to do something, we MUST do it. We must not seek escape. We must not run away. The up side is that God will reward obedience.

Today, my favorite dream is always the same. I am climbing very steep and rocky terrain. The sky is gray and devoid of bright sunlight. I am bruised and exhausted. Just when I feel I can not take one more step, suddenly a gift will appear. Once I received an ice cold bottle of Fiji water. Another time a hammock appeared in my favorite color. Another time, I found a bowl of juicy peaches that burst like drops of sunshine in my mouth.

Finally after what seems like 80 plus years I reach the summit. There I am greeted by a large silver gate. I touch it lightly and the gate swings open to reveal the most beautiful green grass I have ever seen. In the middle of the grass is a bubbling fountain that has my name on it. As I touch the water, my entire body is revived. I am suddenly imbued with the energy of a child. All of my aches and pains from my journey have gone away. In fact, I no longer even remember them. I am radiant and can see everything around me with a new clarity. I can see butterflies everywhere and I can immediately recall all the fun facts that I ever learned about butterflies. I remember their scientific name, place of origin, etc. I am as wise as Solomon.

Thus refreshed, I begin to look for my Friend. I know I will find him sitting under my favorite tree. Sure enough, I see him there. And we sit and chat under the weeping willow about everything for ever.

Never forget that Jesus is here to help you. Stop now and ask him for help. Thank him for taking care of every situation. His power is supernatural, darlings.

John 11

The Death of Lazarus
1 Now a man named Lazarus was sick. He was from Bethany, the village of Mary and her sister Martha. 2 (This Mary, whose brother Lazarus now lay sick, was the same one who poured perfume on the Lord and wiped his feet with her hair.) 3 So the sisters sent word to Jesus, “Lord, the one you love is sick.”

4 When he heard this, Jesus said, “This sickness will not end in death. No, it is for God’s glory so that God’s Son may be glorified through it.” 5 Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus. 6 So when he heard that Lazarus was sick, he stayed where he was two more days, 7 and then he said to his disciples, “Let us go back to Judea.”

8 “But Rabbi,” they said, “a short while ago the Jews there tried to stone you, and yet you are going back?”

9 Jesus answered, “Are there not twelve hours of daylight? Anyone who walks in the daytime will not stumble, for they see by this world’s light. 10 It is when a person walks at night that they stumble, for they have no light.”

11 After he had said this, he went on to tell them, “Our friend Lazarus has fallen asleep; but I am going there to wake him up.”

12 His disciples replied, “Lord, if he sleeps, he will get better.” 13 Jesus had been speaking of his death, but his disciples thought he meant natural sleep.

14 So then he told them plainly, “Lazarus is dead, 15 and for your sake I am glad I was not there, so that you may believe. But let us go to him.”

16 Then Thomas (also known as Didymusa]">[a]) said to the rest of the disciples, “Let us also go, that we may die with him.”

Jesus Comforts the Sisters of Lazarus
17 On his arrival, Jesus found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb for four days. 18 Now Bethany was less than two milesb]">[b] from Jerusalem, 19 and many Jews had come to Martha and Mary to comfort them in the loss of their brother. 20 When Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went out to meet him, but Mary stayed at home.

21 “Lord,” Martha said to Jesus, “if you had been here, my brother would not have died. 22 But I know that even now God will give you whatever you ask.”

23 Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.”

24 Martha answered, “I know he will rise again in the resurrection at the last day.”

25 Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; 26 and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this?”

27 “Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, who is to come into the world.”

28 After she had said this, she went back and called her sister Mary aside. “The Teacher is here,” she said, “and is asking for you.” 29 When Mary heard this, she got up quickly and went to him. 30 Now Jesus had not yet entered the village, but was still at the place where Martha had met him. 31 When the Jews who had been with Mary in the house, comforting her, noticed how quickly she got up and went out, they followed her, supposing she was going to the tomb to mourn there.

32 When Mary reached the place where Jesus was and saw him, she fell at his feet and said, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”

33 When Jesus saw her weeping, and the Jews who had come along with her also weeping, he was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. 34 “Where have you laid him?” he asked.

“Come and see, Lord,” they replied.

35 Jesus wept.

36 Then the Jews said, “See how he loved him!”

37 But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?”

Jesus Raises Lazarus From the Dead
38 Jesus, once more deeply moved, came to the tomb. It was a cave with a stone laid across the entrance. 39 “Take away the stone,” he said.

“But, Lord,” said Martha, the sister of the dead man, “by this time there is a bad odor, for he has been there four days.”

40 Then Jesus said, “Did I not tell you that if you believe, you will see the glory of God?”

41 So they took away the stone. Then Jesus looked up and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 I knew that you always hear me, but I said this for the benefit of the people standing here, that they may believe that you sent me.”

43 When he had said this, Jesus called in a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out!” 44 The dead man came out, his hands and feet wrapped with strips of linen, and a cloth around his face.

Jesus said to them, “Take off the grave clothes and let him go.”

Sunday, January 2, 2011

Nevermind Those Pesky Feelings-2011 is Gonna Be Grand, Darlings!


Isaiah 49
Can a mother forget the baby at her breast
and have no compassion on the child she has borne?
Though she may forget,
I will not forget you!
See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands

We are commanded to love GOD, to keep his commandments to obey his directives. But what happens when your feelings get in the way of and even work to thwart your compliance?

It is essential that we figure out a way to battle certain feelings especially those feelings that cause us to act contrary to God’s law.

Where do these feelings emanate? How can they be overcome?

Let’s start with a few basic truths about feelings.

  1. Feelings are essential to Christians. Recall that God commands us to love him with all of our hearts, our minds and our soul. When we read his word, when we confront his great works in nature, science and the heavens, we are moved. We FEEL awe, wonder, joy.
  2. Feelings cannot be created or commanded. You cannot conjure a genuine feeling. And really, the more you try, the more miserable you may become.
  3. Feelings change because they are based on variables that change from day to day moment to moment. Physical conditions affect us. Hurtful comments affect us. Lack of money or over abundance affects us. Encounters with certain people affect us. The “mean reds” can creep in for no apparent reason. Yesterday you may have been perfectly content only to find that this morning, you are despondent.
Because feelings ebb and flow, we must not allow them to control us.

Instead we must seize control!

HOW?

1. REJOICE.

We are commanded to REJOICE. (But, notice “rejoice” does not mean “be happy.”) You can not conjure up happiness at will. But you can make yourself REJOICE.

Phillipeans 4:4
Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!

So put on a praise song and PRAISE HIM! Regardless of your circumstances. REJOICE in the Lord for something, for everything. Dance and sing until your spirit lifts.


2. STIR UP THE GIFT


2 Timothy 1:6
For which cause I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God, which is in thee through the laying on of my hands.

When that dastardly mood descends, initiate a dialog with your fabulous self.

Say to yourself, "DARLING, I am not going to allow you to descend into that pit today." Remind yourself of who you are, what you are and to whom you belong. Then get outside and take in the sights and sounds of the most perfect Creator.


3. BELIEVE

Acts 16:31
They replied, 'Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved--you and your household.'

Remember his promises. You may not be able to make yourself happy, but you can remind yourself of your belief in a God who can do ANYTHING. This is where all those bible stories come in handy. Remember how Jesus raised Lazarus? Remember Jacob wrestling all night with the pre-incarnate Christ? Remember the promises of God never to leave us. Remember that he sent a Holy Spirit to dwell inside of us to comfort us. Remember that he has prepared a place for us. Remember that we see through a glass darkly on this side but it will be revealed in God’s time.

John 14:16-17
And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever— 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be[c] in you.

Do not worry about your feelings.

Blessed (truly happy) are they who hunger and thirst after righteousness- not happiness.

Do not continue to seek thrills. Instead seek to be more like Jesus. Seek to live righteously. Seek to be holy.

Go directly to God and seek His face. Dive into his word and search for His truth. The revelation thwarts feelings of despair.

AND PLEASE REMEMBER THIS:
Isaiah 49
“I will not forget you! See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.”

As you approach a new year, don’t dwell on the past-past feelings, past failures, suffering, loss. Instead, leave those feelings of negativity buried in 2010.

Go boldly forward into 2011 remembering that GOD holds the new year in HIS HANDS in trust for us.

If you commit to doing things HIS way, He will guide you one day at a time. HE PROMISED, Darlings.

REFERENCE:
Spiritual Depression Its Causes and Its Cure by D. Martin Lloyd-Jones
fantabulous book....

Thursday, December 16, 2010

STAY ON MESSAGE THIS CHRISTMAS, DARLINGS!




God’s ways are extraordinary, secret even inscrutable at times. He operates on a high plane light years above us. This is a fact.

Since I was a child, it struck me as odd that Jesus, the only son of the living GOD was born in a stable with no heat, no amenities, no room service. Why?

In this world, we tend to heap luxury on people that we value. Super stars are treated to 5 star accommodations, swag bags and perks of all kinds. Ordinary folks are treated...well, ordinary. This is the way of the world.

As with most things, God has a different view point. God chose to send Jesus to us in a seemingly low manner to prove a point. Jesus’ arrival signaled a change to the status quo. No longer would we be able to rely on our own efforts to get into the kingdom of God. Our restrictive diet, prayer positions, tithing practices, etc. are no longer enough. Instead, we are now required to surrender our will and follow Jesus and his way. Period. The End.

Once we surrender our lives to God and seek to mimic the ways of his son we will be rewarded. But, our reward is not a life of leisure or comfort. Our reward is a sense of peace, wonder and joy no matter what betides. This is a supernatural gift given to us by a loving God.

Mary and Joseph experienced the type of peace, joy and wonder we can expect after we decide to follow Jesus. These two Christians surrendered their hearts and minds to God. Even though Mary was very pregnant, she and her husband agreed to heed God’s call, leave their home and travel to a foreign land. They did all this without knowing WHY! When Mary was about to deliver her baby, the couple sought lodging at an inn only to be directed to settle in a “lowly” stable.

But was the stable really lowly? Didn’t kings bearing really expensive gifts from distant lands visit these “ordinary” people? Didn’t angels serenade them? Didn’t a marvelous star leave its chartered celestial path to commemorate the birth of their son?

Isn’t God’s reward better than anything we can conjure up? Aren’t His ways better than our ways? Darling, don’t let the world and its chatter confuse you. There is only one perfect path to happiness.

Stay on Message this Christmas!

Sunday, November 28, 2010

Contentment is Learned


Many months ago, I had an Eureka moment. Indeed I discovered that true happiness can be found only in God. This happiness manifests itself as an inner feeling of peace and contentment that depends not on outward circumstances, no matter how dastardly or awesome those circumstances may be. The outcome of happiness even when one is unemployed, broke, childless, ill, injured, etc. is impossible to understand. But, christians can believe this promise because this promise comes from God.

Romans 8:28
God has promised that all things work together for good to those who love and serve Him faithfully.

This Thanksgiving weekend, I had another Eureka moment. While happiness (the feeling of joy) no matter what betides is a gift from our loving God, contentment is actually LEARNED behavior.

Philippians 4:10-20
10 I rejoiced greatly in the Lord that at last you renewed your concern for me. Indeed, you were concerned, but you had no opportunity to show it. 11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength.

Sure, contentment is also a gift from God but it has to be practiced until it is perfected(with God’s help).

We have been commanded to be content so we have to get this one right.

Exodus 20:1-17.
You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.

HOW?

Developing a Godly Perspective is Key.

Circumstances change. This is a fact. One season you are on top of the world and another season later you are under water. Dancers have learned that during a pirouette they must fix their gaze on an inanimate object to avoid dizziness or imbalance. It is the same for us. During a crisis, we must fix our gaze on the only inanimate object in our lives. This is not the time to recall your savings account balance, or your fabulous boyfriend, or your beautiful children or your great job. (these are blessings but they can change in an instant) Instead, this is the time to remember God’s promises to us. God does not change. His promises do not change. These are facts that we can count on.

This earthly Life is beautify and challenging, and difficult and lovely. This life is a series of lessons that are designed by a perfect God to render us perfect.

It is hard to understand why this is so. But we don’t know everything. Indeed, we are just children in Christ who must trust our Father for guidance.

Deuteronomy 29:29
The LORD our God has secrets known to no one. We are not accountable for them, but we and our children are accountable forever for all that he has revealed to us, so that we may obey all the terms of these instructions.

We must face our challenges and defeat each one with the help of the Holy Spirit who was given to us as a gift to assist us on this side.

Our most difficult challenges cause us much turmoil. Ours is a spiritual battle.

Ephesians 6:12
For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of the unseen world, against mighty powers in this dark world, and against evil spirits in the heavenly places.

But each time we overcome a bad habit, perfect a difficult relationship, confess a sin, forgive an enemy, humble ourselves and pray we become more and more like Christ. We move up a little higher.

Therefore it is up to us to constantly encourage ourselves and others through and over life’s circumstances. The result is NOT contentment WITH the world and its folly but instead contentment IN the world.

It is a process, darling. But the sooner we begin the journey, the happier we will be!


Psalm 139
139:1 O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
2 You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
you discern my thoughts from afar.
3 You search out my path and my lying down
and are acquainted with all my ways.
4 Even before a word is on my tongue,
behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
5 You hem me in, behind and before,
and lay your hand upon me.
6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
it is high; I cannot attain it.
7 Where shall I go from your Spirit?
Or where shall I flee from your presence?
8 If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!
9 If I take the wings of the morning
and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
10 even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.
11 If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,
and the light about me be night,”
12 even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is bright as the day,
for darkness is as light with you.
13 For you formed my inward parts;
you knitted me together in my mother's womb.
14 I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. [1]
Wonderful are your works;
my soul knows it very well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
16 Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
in your book were written, every one of them,
the days that were formed for me,
when as yet there was none of them.
17 How precious to me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!
18 If I would count them, they are more than the sand.
I awake, and I am still with you.
19 Oh that you would slay the wicked, O God!
O men of blood, depart from me!
20 They speak against you with malicious intent;
your enemies take your name in vain! [2]
21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O Lord?
And do I not loathe those who rise up against you?
22 I hate them with complete hatred;
I count them my enemies.
23 Search me, O God, and know my heart!
Try me and know my thoughts! [3]
24 And see if there be any grievous way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting! [4]

Sunday, April 18, 2010

Don't Worry, darling. Be HAPPY!



Be anxious for nothing. But in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known unto God. And the peace of God, which passes all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Phillippeans 4:6-7

It is 3:40 in the morning and you are awake. You are anxious and worried. Your heart is uneasy and your mind is moving at warp speed; analyzing various solutions, trying to solve the problem.

Psychologists may tell you that you should not worry. They reason that worrying does no good. What if the bad outcome you imagine does not happen? All is well.

But in your mind, all is not well. The bad thing may happen. Then WHAT?

Paul in Phillipeans speaks to this scenario and he tells us exactly what to do.

Paul admonishes us NOT TO WORRY. Then he tells us how to accomplish this miraculous feat.

There are 4 steps

1) Pray
2) Supplicate
3) Give Thanks
4) Make Your Requests Known

1. PRAY
Prayer is not merely listing your petitions. Prayer is praise and worship. We are told to come before the great and powerful GOD and forget our problems for a moment while we praise HIM. Isn't GOD Awesome? Sit and recall just how AWESOME God is. God, the maker of heaven and earth. God the omnipotent, omniscient one. God who fashioned us and loves us. God the I AM.

2) Supplicate
Now, that we have recognized HIM that keeps us from falling, we can bring our petitions. We can tell tell God what ails us.

3) Give Thanks
You must approach with a heart of thanksgiving. In other words, you can not approach GOD with any doubt as to HIS goodness. What can you thank GOD for? Perhaps you are facing such a calamity that you cannot identify anything to be thankful for in the present. Well, thank God for past blessings. Thank God for Jesus Christ whose death enables us to approach God directly with no intermediary. Thank God for eternal life, for health and strength, for safety, for health, for a good hair day!

4) Make Your Requests Known
Tell God all about it. Tell him what ails and confuses you. Tell Him how you feel. Pour out your heart to God knowing all the while that He hears you and cares deeply about your situation.

NOW WHAT?!

This is the most interesting part of all. After we have followed these steps, notice that Paul does not tell us that our circumstances will change. We are not promised that God will give us everything we ask. Instead, we are promised that God will change us supernaturally so that we are no longer anxious. He will enable us to sleep. He will give us PEACE.

This is very hard to understand. But God promises Peace That Passes All Understanding!

God is concerned with us; our mind and our hearts first. If we follow the steps above, God promises that He will change our hearts and minds in such a way that we will no longer be ruled and effected by our circumstances.

It is not prayer that changes things, it is GOD that changes us.

Being able to remain at peace when the world rages around us: This is Happiness, darling!